and i do not believe that any of my faves are innocent in fact i think they have varied sides to them
for example in ateez heres my observations on what i think they really would be like kf they were in relationship or just in general things ive noticed abt them
seonghwa seems to be quite nurturing with his members but i do think he has a side to him thats manipulative maybe greedy and self fullfilling but people and especially atiny seem to think he's more of a mom figure in the group, this must put a lot of pressure on him to always be seen as kind / caring and maybe he is in to some extent and when he dresses in his mixed gender or genderless fashion they like to give him pronouns and claim he is xyz sexuality. he defo overacts on his "aegyo" despite he is grown man, want sot be the face of ateez despite that clearly being yeosang. with hwa as much as i love him i think he needs to let loose a bit and be less stuck up lmao.
hongjoong, i dont know why but with leaders i get the feeling that theyd rather be quite controlling hes definitely posessive and easily jealous, hj literally gives chihuahua vibes smol but can easily be wound up by his members probably gets off from telling them off ngl, i love his varied talents and performance styles but i do think theres a slightly darker undertone to him and i do feel like a lot of these type of members maybe prefer younger audiences bc they could hookup and have some type of control of another person, i think if they were to do that with someone my age it wouldnt be fulfilling enough for the members cause an older person probably like you said has relationship but their younger fans seem quite willingly to want to hookup with the members. in terms of hj getting jealous and posessive of atiny he states things like dont go to other idols concerts / only focus on them etc which is kinda toxic really im sure hes nice and seems to be a great person from the front of it but underneath he defo has some
san honestly my bias but he gives fuckboi vibes, yet at the same time i find him kinda confusing to observe. he seems to always be tied with woosan thus limiting his potential for getting close with someone else or opposite gender but again i think hes another one that clearly wants to be in control of someone if u see the way he is with wooyoung, i do think he can be sweet and gentle and very attentativ elr aware of situations and how he treats others but at the same time. he seems to struggle with describing things or is a bit dim at times for instance he called var (football), vcr and its a running meme yeosang as well seems to be the most difficult member to parent as hjs said several times but i think yeosang is too dedicated to his performing yet at rhe same time they have a story of him drinking too much so again he has another side to him that isnt all pure and cutesy but san did once say that he wanted to be someones first which again he seems to like a certain image on a person not saying hes into purity but i wouldnt be surprised. he doesnt seem to like fueling his fans delusions but will act gay with wooyoung and other members in fact i think the way his younger audiences can be quite jealous of san maybe even bit hateful towards him that sort of behaviour seems fo confuse him a lot in his toktoqs and other things hes uploaded or having to explain non issues that his fans made an issue etc etc.
yunhoe wouldnt be surprised if he ever gets caught at a club hes another one who wants to be seen as innocent puppy energy type person bit like jake from enhypen that sort of free spirit type playfulness thing he has going on, but he is freaky as shit same with jonghoe i do not believe that anyone whos quiet in a kpop group doesnt have something else hes into a lot of these members r not innocent or pure as they want to be seen as being
yeosang i think is the one or two only members who is as he is on camera and off camera bro does not do skinship i wish theyd stop making him uncomfortable with it he just enjoys performing more than anything else imho
mingi hooks up with fans 100% probably has it going on on the regular but again people paint him as quite innocent and maybe he does come across that way at first but again lately i dont believe it
wooyoung seems to like to always be in other ppls business but i think bro has a shadyness to him or where hes mainly doing something for his own fulfillment and i do think woosan arent romantic at all but theyre still close to some aspect just not in the way fans may expect of them if san is ever seen dating a female it will be outrage reactions bc they assumed he was or is gay and dating his teammate. even if san somewhat find wooyoung attractive doesnt mean theyre dating but thats another thing kq likes to push compared to other more natural dynamics of the group, woosan seems most commonly brought up
the thing is with their style of performing in quite sexual manners i do wonder how they are getting to have their fun i cant imagine that they arent doing it in hotel rooms and other shit i think the way they kinda present themselves in certain ways will always give them an overreaction if they arent exactly how fans imagine them to be. i dont also expect them not to be into freaky as shit stuff either but theyre still part of kpop sadly even if they are one of my fave groups they have to act out skinship and aegyo even if they dont want too