Once I was on a bus and this old fat guy sat next to me. He could have sat next to a woman, around his own age, a man his own age, but he chose to sit next to me. As he sat down, he took his arm, and put it behind my head, and also took up about 25-35% of my seat. I moved over to the edge of my seat, because his thighs and backside were squished next to mine, and then he spread out even more, keeping the contact on me. I told him (after about .5 hr) to get off my seat, and remove his arm. He started screaming at me, appealing to the adults in the bus and I kept calm. I told him I didn't appreciate his backside and legs and arms against me - I'm on my seat, he should stay on his. He continued to flubber, and said eventually that he wasn't going to move, he was comfortable where he was, and I had to bear with it (3 hr trip) until the trip ended. I asked him why did I have to have his body parts against mine - this wasn't right, and then he snorted, oh' honey I'm GAY.
And I told him, I didn't care if he was gay - and he had no reason to tell me - we were not getting or going to get married. I was not interested in him or what he does with his body - as long as he kept all of it, off me. The point is I - as a girl do not want him, as a fat old male stranger, pressing his large thigh, backside, shoulder, arms etc against me, with no regard or respect for my personal space. Stick to your side of the seat.
To me, sexuality is a private, personal thing. Just because a person is male or female - it does not make them accessible or possibly available. Since when has the public sphere transformed into someone's personal "zone" of intimacy? With all the issues one could consider, why is society directing attention to genitalia? We could be discussing ways to get to the moon, but instead the focus is on people's pants. Its sad and stupid.
And I guess on the topic overall, examining something, and having a discussion on it, is not "bashing." No more than questioning a sanitized party line makes you a "conspiracy theorist" Phrases and words like these cut down on independent thought and opinions. It silences the conversation before it even starts. The world is composed of many different people and there are many different views and motivations. What media puts is only approved messaging. It is only right to critique what that message is, the distribution, the machine generating it and the desired change/flow that message brings.
Welcome Aliahlukey, pinkblob,
ponyoyeojachingu, and
Looking and Seeing (and all new members!)
I haven't seen anything like this, nor with such an open-minded group.... soompi had some interesting threads before they sold out, and right before they did (maybe a year or so prior) they started to heavily censor posters and threads.
I'm glad you're safe
*hugs*
That is ALOT of tattoos. The Diamond, the owl, the pyramid, the eye, uh..... come on now!
I remember an interview where BlockB saying Taeil was into "dark" spooky, creepy stuff, in a joking manner....
There's also his latest tattoo -
http://instagr.am/p/BbT8E6rlJc1/
I first heard of Ha Sang-beg, when I came across Lee Hyuk Soo (still in his modeling days). The designer in general used people who looked a-typical. LHS was employed regularly by him, and most of his clothes or shoots were a little... kinky... jeggings, swimwear, etc.
For editorials, there was an infamous tearsheet featuring milk. If you dig around, one can find the rest of it, along with those swimwear shoots. Although just by the video showing his website, you can already get a good idea of his branding.
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@gain's paradise lost, during that time her ex - Ju Ji-hoon was filming a period piece, and publicity for both were talking about how Gain has men naked for hours on her video production and he has throngs of naked women around his set for hours each day as well (I did write "as well" except he was naked too
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Last summer on instragram she went out on the public for speculating on her stress-breaks, and also outed Ju JiHoon for still being a pot-head, hanging out with potheads and trying to make her into one too. They broke up shortly after. She's been relatively quiet since.